Coping after four miscarriages?

Hi,having 4 miscarriages must be terrible for you and your partner.I had a miscarriage 11 days ago.I was 9 weeks pregnant.Its the most hardest thing ive ever gone through.I even find it hard coming on here reading about people getting positive preg tests and people thinking they are pregnant.One positive thing is your doctor is referred you to someone who may be able to help you.Dont give up!